Thursday, May 7, 2009

~Love Bits Chapter~


Was having a lousy day, what with my mom going into nagging overdrive *jeez* and having to worry about my presentation tomorrow (what if I screw up?? what if I forget my lines??). Then this email came through from my cousin and I decided to post it up with a "special" picture I took. Lol, love you "kai ma" and "kai pa"~! I'm sure some have read this email before but anyways, here goes :::


To My Friends Who Are.....SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose only the best.

To My Friends Who Are.....NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be. It isn't about finding someone you can live with, it's about finding someone you can't live without.

To My Friends Who Are.....PLAYBOY/GIRL
Never say "I love you" if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a person can do to another is to let that person fall in love when there's no intention to catch the fall.

To My Friends Who Are.....MARRIED
Love is not about "it's all your fault", but "I'm sorry". Not "where are you", but "I'm right here for you". Not "how could you", but "I understand". And never "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are".

To My Friends Who Are.....ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other. When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.

To My Friends Who Are.....HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want them to last and cut as deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.

To My Friends Who Are.....NAIVE
How to be in love ::: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.

To My Friends Who Are.....POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else, but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

To My Friends Who Are.....AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love is so close and yet, has no idea how you feel.

To My Friends Who Are.....STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now, he's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....

AND TO ALL MY FRIENDS.....
My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature, never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.